If we only knew the good side of every people we meet, life would have been much happier. The problem with humans is that we plant a relationship and then we start to dig at the roots and still expect the plant to stand straight.If we could only see the shade it gave, the delicious fruits it bare, we would simply move on appreciating the help. Similarly if we saw only the bright side of people in every relationship, life would be easy. We meet, greet, accept the good side and move on, simple. In other words, Plant, harvest and water daily to save the tree, Strictly no digging.